GYTL Singles

Give Yourself to Love

A Radical New Paradigm for Relating

2-Day Relationship Training

Wouldn’t it be nice to HAVE love in your life,
instead of always wanting and longing for it?

Dear friend,

Being single can be a lonely road to travel. You spend a lot of time longing for companionship, or wondering when – or if! – you’ll meet that one special person you’ll want to stay with.

When you meet someone, on a date or elsewhere, whom you start seeing, you wonder if he or she is the right person for you, and if you’re making the right decision.

If not, wouldn’t it better to call it quits NOW, before any of you get hurt again. Besides, it’s important to you to be honest and kind, and you don’t want to “lead them on” and give the false hopes. And you certainly don’t want to have false hopes, either. You’ve already had enough of those to last you a lifetime!

I remember when I was single the worst part was not being able to tell anyone how sick I was of feeling lonely. I longed to be loved, and touched, and cared for so bad, but I could never be honest about that.

If you’re anything like me, you try to take care of it by having lots of friends, or cats, or maybe you do the aunt or uncle thing with your brother’s kids. But there’s just no real way you can make the longing go away … even after a day of great company with your friends or family, you still come home to an empty home, once again left alone with your thoughts.

Well, we’d like to invite you to a totally different kind of relationship experience, the likes of which you’ve probably never been had.

Notice we said “relationship experience”, not “singles experience”.

You see, one of the things that make it really difficult to create the relationship you long for, is that you’re so steeped in a world of SINGLE!

You go to “singles events”, or “singles Meetups”, or dance around with other singles at the weekly dances, or learn from a single life coach how to be happier …. single, single, single!

From that vantage point, it always looks like relationship is something you need to find or create, and THEN you’ll be in one, and you can start doing all those lovely relationship-y things.

And for some reason, the relationship keeps eluding you … even when you meet some decent “potentials”, it doesn’t last.

So let’s share a couple of BIG pieces you need to know, and which at the same time are BIG issues we totally nail at Give Yourself to Love.

First, as we started to talk about above ….

You SOLIDIFY your “singlehood” by steeping yourself in a world of “Everything Single”. The underlying thinking being that you’re either IN relationship OR you’re single, which then must mean OUT of relationship. So if you desire a wonderful relationship, your challenge is to get IN one, right!

This has your relationship be a thing of the future, a thing to go GET, much like you would pursue a college degree or a new certification.

In actuality, you are already IN relationship. And relationship only happens NOW. If you don’t know how to BE in relationship NOW, even Mr Perfect will walk right by you and you won’t even see him.

Your mind is such that it will literally OBLITERATE anything or anyone that doesn’t fit into its current paradigm (i.e. current “box” around your existence).

(When we meet at Give Yourself to Love, ask Christian to tell the story of how he almost lost Sonika because she did not fit into his current paradigm. It makes him look kind of silly, but he’ll tell it anyway:-)

couple-happy-looking-at-each-otherGive Yourself to Love is a RELATIONSHIP experience, not a singles experience. We deliberately put singles and couples together in the same group. Because by doing that, we put YOU into a relationship world, right NOW! The fastest, most efficient way for you to create the relationship you so desire, is to put yourself in a relationship world right now, and begin to think of yourself as IN relationship.

You’ll get to witness and experience what it looks like when other great couples join forces to create a better love life (something you might have liked with your previous relationships?). You’ll get to be there with them as they navigate the wonderful, adventurous, and sometimes challenging waters of relationship. You will step yourself right into relationship, on the spot!

It will seep into your heart and anchor itself on your backbone in a way no singles event ever will!

AVAILABLE DATES FOR
GIVE YOURSELF TO LOVE

(You’ll pick your preferred training later in the check-out process)

  • Corte Madera (SF Bay Area), Sept 20-21

AVAILABLE DATES FOR
GIVE YOURSELF TO LOVE

(You’ll pick your preferred training later in the check-out process)

  • Corte Madera (SF Bay Area), Sept 20-21

You have 2 Options for Registration:

1. Register at Full Price, $797 per person

Register at full price

2. or Register below with Promo Code, $397 per person

Secondly, we’ve discovered a major secret that effectively keeps the love and connection you want far away from you: Wanting love and having love cannot exist at the same time! The results of not knowing this are sad indeed. It literally means that the more you LONG for love and relationship and companionship, the further away from your grasp it is. But it’s impossible NOT to want it, how could you not? We can’t extinguish our desire for love, connection, partnership. But you also can’t HAVE it as long as you’re wanting it! Total Catch 22! Try this mind experiment with us … When you’re dreaming of that wonderful relationship that you don’t have yet, but want to have; in your imagination, you’re not sitting on the beach with your Beloved WANTING stuff, right? In your perfect dream, you’re not laying in bed with the “One”, WANTING the “One”. No, in your dream, you simply HAVE it. You HAVE him, or her by your side. As a matter of fact, in your dream, you WANT for NOTHING! You only HAVE! Wanting love and having love are like two sides of a massive gorge with no bridge across. When you want love (or anything else, for that matter), you’re on one side, looking longingly towards the other side, wondering how to get over there. But there’s no way. The only way across is to BE over there! How to create a bridge where there’s no bridge!?? At Give Yourself to Love, we’ll give you the bridge! We literally had to invent this bridge ourselves, because nowhere in all our studies did anyone teach this, and we suffered the agony of wanting without having for many years in our own relationship lives. The bridge is actually a formula, and once you get this formula, you’ll be able to go so fast from wanting love to having love, you’ll be completely amazed (and at first, you may even find it hard to believe it can be that smooth). I’ll tell you, if I had know this formula back in my single years, I would not only have had a ton less heart aches and incessant questioning in my mind, but even better, I would have LOVED the relationships I did have, short or long! And I would have been a way better partner to the women I dated! After Give Yourself to Love, because you’ll know this formula so thoroughly, you’ll be spending a whole lot more time HAVING the actual experience you desire, and a whole lot LESS time wanting it!

It helped me feel confident I deserved this man! I knew the course would be valuable, but I did not know its effects would be as paradigm shifting and long lasting as they have been! GYTL helped me feel confident that I deserved and could lovingly maintain a relationship with this man. So that’s what I’m doing!”

Amy

 

I finally got to have the experience I wanted in High School! Women are coming out of the woodwork!” “As a single man, it was incredibly helpful to be in a workshop with singles and couples and to witness firsthand how couples can communicate and relate with each other in healthy and more authentic ways. I also got great practice in skills that I can use with ALL of my relationships – family, friends, clients, colleagues, dates, and people I meet for the first time.” Mike

  There’s a third “biggie” that surprises our single students when we reveal it to them: The skills and understanding you need to create a fabulous relationship are the exact same that are required to sustain a fabulous relationship you’ve been in for 10 years! We know this sounds astonishing, especially looking from being “outside” of a relationship, but we promise you it’s true. What it means for you is that if you don’t have these skills, even if you were to “magically” run into the “One” tomorrow, chances are you would have a great and very short-lived “honeymoon”, after which you’d run into the inevitable conflicts and disappointments and then conclude that “we’re just not compatible!” We can’t begin to tell you how many times we had this experience when our relationship was in its “infancy”. Christian lived in Denmark, Sonika in California, and we appeared so often to be utterly “incompatible”. Christian liked his quiet, and could sit under a tree for hours. Sonika was super social and would rather be with people. Christian was an organic-vegetarian fanatic, Sonika was open to trying anything and would relish her non-organic ice cream. They sound like trivial things when we write them down, but these are the exact “differences” that has you decide about someone that you’re “not compatible”. How to navigate such differences is a relationship skill. If you don’t have this skill going in, the slightest differences will break you apart. And we guarantee you, if you start a new relationship with an interesting “potential” and it doesn’t work out, it was NOT because you’re a vegetarian and he’s a meat eater! Those are all secondary issues. At Give Yourself to Love, you’ll find out how to navigate issues like these, so you can move like a person who’s IN RELATIONSHIP, instead of a person who’s desperately TRYING to GET a relationship. And that will have a dramatic positive effect on how attractive you are!

And best of all, I started a wonderful relationship with a man My inner and outer life has changed immeasurably! I am the happiest and healthiest I have been in years. My earnings for the first six months of this year are the highest ever. I have raised my rates to clients. My relationships with family have become gentler and more loving. And best of all, I started a wonderful relationship with a man after being single for three years” Julie-Ann

  Finally, we make this bold claim: Love is a space you can enter at any time! When I was single, I felt like love was out of my reach. I would meet someone and get really hopeful, and for a short while feel filled up. But then it would sour, and we’d break up, and I once again felt deprived of love. Ouch. Even after the tenth or twentieth time, it didn’t hurt any less. We want to show you not just HOW to enter into deep love, so you can do it any time you like; better still, you’ll actually DO IT so many times during the training, you’ll have the KNOWING of Love deep in your body when you leave, and you will not forget it! Love is yours to HAVE! We make and address bold claims at Give Yourself to Love. Amongst them …

  • What you think you want is not what you REALLY want. Which sets you up to look for love and satisfaction in all the wrong places. Because you’re pursuing what you THINK you want, you’re set up to never reach it, ‘cause even when you get there, it wasn’t IT anyway!
  • What you think you’re upset about is not what you’re REALLY upset about. This is the relationship equivalent of having a horrible disease, but no one gives you the correct diagnosis. What you THINK is wrong with you, is not it, so all the medication and treatment you get doesn’t cure you. Same in the case of being single … when you don’t know what REALLY ails your heart, you cannot relieve it. After this training, you’ll know!
  • Everything you do to improve your situation only makes it worse! Yikes. This is the everyday tragedy of singles and couples alike. You try your hardest to be upbeat about your situation. Or you try your hardest to make a great impression on a first date, intent upon not messing it up this time. But somehow it didn’t work this time either! We will demonstrate to you why your best efforts backfire and literally make it worse instead of better.
… it really doesn’t get any better than them [Sonika & Christian] I’ve done personal growth/transformational work for over 3 decades and have been a practitioner in the healing arts for over 25 years. I experience Sonika and Christian as the best of the best; it really doesn’t get any better than them! If you want more in your relationship, even with yourself, they bring a very sweet, clear, very accessible avenue for deep, fast, lasting results. I completely endorse their work and highly recommend working with them! “ Loren

Let’s just say, at the end of this weekend, you’ll have new answers to all these and more. And you’ll be able to literally step into deep, fulfilling love on a moment’s notice, and you’ll have done it many times during the two days. You will leave with your heart brimming full and overflowing with love and awe! Come join us! Give Yourself to Love is normally $797 per person, as are the other weekend trainings we offer. As this is our intro training that lays a whole new foundation for ALL relationships, we want to make it available to as many as possible. Therefore, if you’re a first-time attendant, and you have a promo code, you can register for only $397! So go ahead and register, either at the full price or with the promo code. In either case, as you go through the check-out process, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and location for your Give Yourself to Love! We can’t wait to see you!

AVAILABLE DATES FOR
GIVE YOURSELF TO LOVE

(You’ll pick your preferred training later in the check-out process)

  • Corte Madera (SF Bay Area), Sept 20-21
AVAILABLE DATES FOR
GIVE YOURSELF TO LOVE

(You’ll pick your preferred training later in the check-out process)

  • Corte Madera (SF Bay Area), Sept 20-21

You have 2 Options for Registration:

1. Register at Full Price, $797 per person

Register at full price

2. or Register below with Promo Code, $397 per person

Much Love
LoveWorks