LoveWorks For Couples

LoveWorks Resources for Couples

Creating relationships that are fulfilling, deeply passionate, purposeful, fun, delicious, and mutually empowering is possible for everybody - for you! Relationships are meant to be a space for supporting and encouraging each other to rise to our fullest potential. Even conflicts and fights are meant for that purpose!

If your relationships up till now has not been like that, it doesn't mean you can't have it! It just means you've been living in an outdated relationship paradigm and you haven't had better skills to apply.

Below you can see what we offer in terms of supporting you to live love in relationship, get free from your stuck stories, and use every conflict and fight as a stepping stone to the relationship that is calling you.

The Heart of Relating

Seven-week relationship training program, combined tele-class and live phone group coaching.

This value-packed and content-rich relationship training will help you create deep intimacy, resolve long-standing conflicts, pave the way for passionate lovemaking, and spontaneous heartfelt expressions of joy, love and appreciation. You will learn to use every fight, every conflict, every single thing you dislike about your partner and your relationship to build the relationship you want.

The Heart of Relating is the perfect class choice if you:

- Are sick of petty arguments and superficial interactions
- Have the same long-standing complaints and issues that go nowhere
- Have given up on getting what you want in your relationship
- Are ready to enliven and deepen your relationship
- Want to re-kindle your passionate loving relationship
- Want to improve your relationship skills in general

Each session includes teaching, experiential exercises and homework assignments to complete in between sessions. There is also time for questions and answers at the end of each class session. Individualized coaching sessions are available for an additional discounted fee.

Some of what is covered in the class

#1 Discover how to break the pattern of reinforcing what you don't want and don't like in your partner and re-connect with the love and beauty of your partner again.

#2 Break free of past disappointments and hurts. Get unstuck from your judgments of each other and shift to feeling powerfully supported to be your best.

#3 Constructively use complaints and problems as launching pads for creating what you want, all the while deepening intimacy and strengthening your partnership.

#4 Create a safe place to be authentically honest and fully expressed. Learn to share and listen to each other with sacred respect, curiosity and wonder.

#5 Learn to use anger, resentment, strong reactions and unresolved issues as
opportunities for growth, increased understanding, forgiveness and resolution.

#6 Know what has you and your partner feel loved and acknowledged. Quit moving as enemies and learn to move cooperatively as partners towards win/wins.

Personal Coaching

For Couples: Married, Separated, Committed, Pre-Marital

One-on-one private coaching

Individualized coaching is for you who need help that is specific to you and your relationship. When you're too stuck to "unstick" yourselves; when your circumstance is so unique it requires individual attention; or if you simply prefer the privacy of confidential one-on-one support.

We recommend everyone we support to first take The Heart of Relating class (see above). That way, we don't have to spend one-on-one time teaching the basics of a new way to be in relationship, and it's a lot cheaper for you than having us teach you individually.

12-Session Couples Coaching Program

This comprehensive couples program includes one one-hour session per week over a twelve week period. We can be flexible in scheduling appointments to accommodate your schedule.

This program is designed for couples to learn and practice a specific set of skills designed to increase intimacy and compassion, improve and deepen communication, promote working together as cooperative partners, resolve long-standing conflicts, and replace destructive patterns and interactions with relationship practices that address your specific relationship concerns and needs.

If you are stuck and want to experience a breakthrough in your relationship, or you want to rekindle an already good relationship, develop skills to insure you keep a new relationship, or see if your relationship can be saved, then this program is for you.

Together, we will uncover the source of your discontent or concern, reveal your heart-felt desires, and use both to launch you closer to your vision of what you want to create in your relationship. We will address your particular issues with specific processes designed to help you break free of stuck patterns and achieve positive results. We will guide and support you with compassion and respect as you practice these life-changing, heart-opening relationship tools and dramatically improve the quality of your relating.

Click here to register for a half-off initial consultation to explore what difference coaching could make for your relationship.

Don't wait 'til it's too late! Don't be like most couples and seek help after one partner is already out the door. Give yourself the relationship you have been waiting for, now.

For couples, gay or straight, in-person or by phone. Coaching sessions, unless specified otherwise are with Sonika Tinker, MSW. Couples can request coaching sessions with both Sonika and Christian for an additional fee. Call for current package deals and rates.

Intensive Retreats
The 5-Hour Couples Intensive

Intensive Couples Coaching: A concentrated 5 hour intensive program with Sonika alone, or Sonika & Christian together, your choice. Private, not a group. Whether you are trying to save your marriage or relationship, wanting to rekindle your strong partnership or wanting to resolve on-going conflicts, this concentrated approach is effective. Together, we can transform and strengthen your marriage.

Our Relationship Training Program is said to be equal to years of traditional therapy. We produce results! Our innovative approach to transforming relationships is practical, proven, heartfelt and starts change in your relationship immediately.

Profound, positive change in your marriage can definitely take place in this focused and concentrated program.

Weekend Intensive Retreats

Many couples have said to us, "I wish you could follow me around for a month and help me reinforce this learning!" Well, we almost can. Maybe not for a month, but for a weekend or two...

Imagine receiving coaching, guidance and support throughout a two and a half day period with your partner while basking in the sun, enjoying a hot tub, swimming pool, hammock, master bedroom with fireplace and private bath, and deliciously organic home-made meals out in the quiet country. Can you imagine a more relaxing, supportive environment for revitalizing your relationship?

An hour a week is good, but a concentrated weekend to focus attention on you and your relationship can speed up the transformation process immensely. Your personal in-house coaches will not only "dine" you, but offer consistent loving support and guidance throughout your retreat. Through one-on-one sessions, as well as focused couples work, you will have opportunities to do deep transformational work that might otherwise take years. The consistent reinforcement of new relationship practices as you work through long-standing issues, will allow you to maximize your learning in order to make the biggest difference possible in your relationship.

If you want a life-changing breakthrough in your relationship quickly, a retreat might just be what the perfect solution for you. Call for current schedule and rates.

Don't Wait till It's Too Late!

Remember, Love Works!

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LoveWorks!

Making Love Work For You....Forever!

Meadow Vista, CA 95722

(530) 878-3893

FAX (530) 878-3893

sonika@loveworksforyou.com